In the course of our daily work here at Lillian’s Professional Services , we not only work with tax forms and legal/financial documents a TON … but we also get a regular crash course, via those documents, on how people (our clients, mostly) have arrived to the place where they actually have something to *protect*.
In short, we get to be around a great many well-accomplished families.
So, perhaps it’s odd to you, but I’ve learned to pay attention to the subconscious lessons I can learn from my clients, and from people of means around the country.
I’ve discovered a few things along the way about what keeps people from the kind of accomplishment and means which they are looking for.
So I’ve decided to channel my inner Clark Howard today and deliver some advice which isn’t the “same old, same old” — and which can help you think about how you’re handling your finances a little differently.
Even many of my clients make some of these mistakes … and they can hurt you. Especially because we hardly ever think about them.
Lillian Turner -Bowman Uncovers Your Money Mistakes In Plain Sight
“Leadership is practiced not so much in words as in attitude and in actions.” – Harold Geneen
You pay your bills on time. You try to save as much as you can. You even follow the advice which you read in books and hear on the radio about how to keep your finances in check.
But you’re still not getting ahead.
Well, sometimes, it’s the unchallenged assumptions about how we’re handling our money which rise up and bite us in the keister.
So, in the course of working with clients, I’ve identified some mistakes I see (as well as ones I’ve made myself!), which can be fixed. All it takes is thinking a little differently…
Subconscious Mistake #1: Inappropriate Mental Accounting
Definition: Tendency for families to divide money into separate accounts based on subjective criteria.
Typical Example: Treating $100 you received as a gift from Grandma, differently than a $100 bill earned.
Typical Example #2: Having money languishing in a savings account earning 0.25%, while carrying high-interest debt to pay off at 12%.
Cure: Funnel income, no matter the source, into one savings account.
For any “found money”, such as a tax refund or gift from Grandma, quickly decide where that money is best utilized.
As for expenses, occasionally change how you pay. If you always pay with a credit card, try cash. This will get you remembering that all of it, for the purposes of your mental “books”, should be lumped into one monthly bucket.
Subconscious Mistake #2: Manipulative Price Anchoring
Definition: Our tendency to relate the value of a purchase to a price point which, rationally, should have no bearing on the amount spent.
Typical Example: The “rule of thumb” to spend two months’ salary on an engagement ring.
Typical Example #2: A realtor will tell you that “in 2011, this house was going for $500,000 – and is now listed at only $350,000!” … causing you to think this house is undervalued.
Cure: For big ticket purchases like a house, car, or engagement ring, ask a friend whose financial values you respect for their input.
For everyday purchases, avoid looking at the MSRP or sticker price.
Can I afford this today?
What do I really want to spend?
What is this really worth to me?
Marketers are experts at this sort of price-anchoring, and we really should know better … but yet we still fall prey to it. Try not to let outside sources set up the comparison by which you should be considering such large purchases.
There are a few more big ones, but for the sake of brevity I’ll save those for another week. But do let me know: is this helpful to you? And what more could we do for you, to help?
Lillian Turner -Bowman
Lillian’s Professional Services